What Will Your Day Be Like?

What Will Your Day Be Like?

HOW TO HAVE A BAD DAY:


Wake up late, in a panic
Rush to get ready
Dress hurriedly
Don't eat
Drink lots of coffee
No spiritual reflection
No exercise
Don't plan your day
Focus on your failures
Never smile
Be selfish and unfriendly
Criticize, blame, complain
Think negative thoughts
Dictate, direct, command
Don't forget to nag
Don't overlook mistakes
Grumble
No time for lunch
Harbor resentment
Keep rushing
Don't communicate
Keep it all to yourself
Worry about tomorrow
Be rigid and cranky
Retire with bad thoughts and a full stomach

*ask your self, how many times a day you done that?? and what are the result??


HOW TO HAVE A GOOD DAY!


Wake up early - don't rush
Breath slowly and deeply
Exercise
Take 5 minutes to reflect
Greet everyone
Smile a lot
Compliment often
Communicate
Listen more - talk less
Beware of giving advice
View your work as a privilege
Express appreciation
Do your best
Welcome change
Relax your neck muscles
Plan time for relaxation
Throw away negative feelings
Let go of anger and guilt
Leave work at work
Review your accomplishments
Plan pleasurable events
Eat well at night
Recognize your blessings
Lots of love

*ask your self, how many times a day you done that?? and what are the result??

Taken from www.motivateus.com

Personal Empowerment

Personal Empowerment

Use Empowering Words When You Talk to Yourself
(whether you are speaking out loud or silently)

How do you talk to yourself?
Do you use the words "can't", "won't", "don't need to", "why try"?
Many people do.

Do you find that what you say to yourself turns out to be true?

Why is this?

You see your brain is like a computer that you feed each day. It doesn't know always know what's real or not unless you tell it.

Example: If someone you love has hurt you, you may tell yourself that all people who love you will probably hurt you too.

Your brain just files this information for reference, it's data, little zeroes and ones and no column that asks "true or not true?" Now your brain thinks, based on what you told it, that everyone you'll ever love will hurt you.

How do you think you will respond the next time you get hurt? Right!!

Now, what if we instead told our brain:

"Okay this person ripped my heart out - but that's only one person. I'm lovable and have many loving people in my life who are not out to hurt me. I know that the right people are coming into my life all the time. If someone hurts me, I will forgive them and bless them on their way."

Words can be empowering.

I can
I love to
I want to
I will
I must
I am

We can reach a new level of living, if we feed ourselves empowering words and practice saying them until they become a habit.

I know first hand that it takes time.

And I also know that it's worth it.

Try it for a week.

Catch yourself saying, "I can't", when you don't really mean it and instead try, "I can", and see how you think and feel about yourself.

Remember, the words you use to empower yourself will have a lasting effect, only if you practice them and they become a habit (an acquired behavior pattern regularly followed until it has become almost involuntary).

They say it takes at least 28 days to develop a habit. After a week, you will see that it becomes easier. It's a mindset and you can control your thoughts.
Be proactive and not reactive - give yourself some good words.




Dream big and empower yourself! Believe you can and you will.

by: Marlene Blaszczyk, Source Unknown

Learning is FUN!!

Learning is always fun if we want it to be "Fun"...^__^. Why is it have to be fun? I is because learning is like "eating", it is not what you eat, but its about weather or not you digest the food. It is not about how much do you eat but how much do you digest the food. The better you digest, the better nutritional you get. The worst you digest the least nutrition you'll get. Did you get my point?? so what are you waiting for?? Bonn A Petite...hehehehehe

So you see its not about how much materials that you learn but it is about how many materials that you master and you can you use for your own and others benefit. Just like also in real live you don't want to be around to those who have a lot but don't want to share it to others right?...


All right and again back to the topic....so we must enjoy something in order to digest it right. Did you remember when is the first time you going out on a date with the person you expect the most?? Did you remember when the first time and the second time you are in the phone with them?? Did you realize time that pass by when you are with them?? The answer is, you enjoy it so much that you want to do it over and over again that you just want to stop the time Right!

So Just imagine how much information that you can get when you enjoying something and spend some real quality time with it. In learning...especially in Learning English Language. First of all you need to know what you want to learn, second is then you try to find how the things that you want to learn you can enjoy. As for an example, if you need to learn vocabulary, find a vocabulary games, read an interesting books that you can find or read those English manga comic books, or even try to play a video games with story and a lot of drama involve in it, so when you play a games is like watching a movie and learn a new words from the English subtitle.

Anything that you enjoy, it will last longer than you expected. Did you still remember your first Awesome experience?? Well you can start sharing it by giving a comments on this Article....and Happy Trying....and have Fun out there...find a Friend to talk too... ^__^ Keep Smiling though....

Mudah belajar bahasa....Learning a Language is Easy (It's All Up To You To Choose)

Terkadang kita mendengar celotehan orang yang sedang belajar English mengatakan "Pak belajar bahasa itu susah yah??" atau "Hebat yah..Sir bisa bahasa Ingris and Speak Inggris...Kalo saya "Tidak tau Sir"!", atau "Pak!..gimana caranya agar saya bisa lancar berbicara bahasa Ingris seperti bapak?". Belajar bahasa sebenarnya hal yang mudah jika kita bisa menghindari klaim yang mengatakan bahwa kita belajar bahasa itu susah dan terkadang salah satu pelajaran yang susah, bahkan hampir setara dengan belajar "Bio Nano Bots Engeneering for medical and military purposes". Shhheeeessssszzz!
Belajar apapun di dunia ini sebenarnya memang mudah...itu tergantung bagaimana cara kita memandang persoalan tersebut. Jika kita telah terlebih dahulu mengatakan bahwa belajar bahasa itu susah...yah sudah...mending gak usah belajar sekalian, karena secara otomatis otak kita akan mencari jalan untuk membuat belajar bahasa itu menjadi sangat sulit, bahkan dari apa yang pernah kita bayangkan. Hal yang sama juga berlaku sebaliknya...jika kita memulai berpikir bahwa Insya ALLOH pelajaran yang akan d pelajari akan gampang dan mudah...walaupun yang kenataan yang ada mengatakan sebaliknya, Keep Smiling...karena otak kita akan mulai mencari cara untuk menjadikan semuanya akan jauh lebih mudah dari apa yang kita bayangkan sebelumnya.
Saya belum berani menjamin seberapa cepat hal itu bisa terjadi, pada saat kita berpikir bahwa pelajaran itu Mudah, tidak secara serta merta, klik! pada saat itu juga langsung menjadi mudah... akan tetapi semuanya membutuhkan waktu untuk membuatnya menjadi kenyataan... "ibarat menanam benih"...membutuhkan waktu untuk menajdi pohon dan akhirnya bisa berbuah...nah dengan mulai berpikir bahwa pelajaran yang akan kita hadapi itu mudah, kita sudah menanam bibit kemudahan dalam belajar atau mendapatkan sesuatu. Nah....sekarang saatnya kita coba...dan jika ada pengalaman yang pernah di rasakan silahkan di comment...and Share your Great News and Inspire the Others(dan mari berbagi penalamanmu yang mengesankan dan Jadilah Inspirator bagi orang lain)...
Well...to be continue... Happy Trying... ^__^